What is conflict?
There is a tendency to view conflict as a negative
experience caused by abnormally difficult circumstances but conflict can be
productive and have positive outcomes. Conflict arises when there is a clash of
two or more opposing ideas or needs creating a negative experience
There are 4 main factors that that stand out:
1. Disagreement– Conflict can sometimes sprout from
misunderstandings rather than actual incidence and therefore exaggerate the
perceived disagreement. If the parties can isolate the actual issue then the
problem can be solved.
2. Parties involved - People often "take sides" based
upon current perceptions of the issues, past issues, relationships and other
factors. These circumstances can complicate the conflict by dragging
unnecessary people or instances into the mix. In order to resolve the issue at
hand, people need to try to not let their personal feelings intervene.
3. Alleged threat–People tend to respond based on
how they see a situation and react not knowing the full story. If team members can work to understand the
true issues and develop strategies to solve them, then their on their way to
constructively managing conflict.
4. Needs, Interests or Concerns–In order to address
and resolve conflict, both parties must accommodate each other’s needs,
interests or concerns. Any efforts to resolve conflicts effectively must
take these points into account. It’s not surprising that satisfactory
resolution of most conflicts can prove so challenging and time consuming to
address.
Why Conflict Escalates
So it only takes one person to get the wrong idea to initiate the
beginning of conflict. One person may
say or do something that the other person finds unsettling. The other person may not have meant anything
of it but the other person doesn’t know it. Because nothing is confronted both
parties read off each other giving off negativity building up conflict until it
explodes or one reaches out for a resolution.
Responding to Conflict
There are a number of ways that people respond to conflict.
- Competing is a way in which one's own needs are put over the needs of others.It’s an aggressive style of communication with low regard for future relationships, and the exercise of dominance. Competing tends to result in responses that increase the level of tension.
- Accommodating, also known as smoothing, is the opposite of competing. Persons using this style yield their needs to those of others.
- Avoiding is a common response to the negative perception of conflict. "Perhaps if we don't bring it up, it will blow over". But, generally, all that happens is that feelings get built up, views go unexpressed, and the conflict festers until it becomes too big to ignore.
- Compromising is an approach to conflict in which people gain and give. While satisfactory, compromise is generally not satisfying. We each remain shaped by our individual needs and don't necessarily understand the other side very well. We often retain a lack of trust and avoid risk-taking involved in more collaborative behaviors.
- Collaborating is the combining of individual needs and goals toward a common goal.Collaboration requires communication and cooperation in order to achieve a better solution than either individual could have achieved alone.
· Confronting is
also described as problem solving, integrating, collaborating or win-win style.
It involves the conflicting parties meeting face-to-face and collaborating to
reach an agreement that satisfies the concerns of both parties. This style
involves open and direct communication which should lead the way to solving the
problem
Positive
Outcomes of Conflict
- · Increased Productivity
- · Better Decision Making
- · Stronger Team
Negative
Outcomes of Conflict
- · Low Team Morale
- · Decreased Productivity
- · Biased Decision Making
- · Divided team
Types of Conflict
Conflict is a natural and inevitable aspect
of working within a group.
Personal
Conflict – Is commonly caused when there is a
disagreement through which the parties involved perceive a threat to their
needs, interests or concerns.
Technical
Conflict – Refers to the problems encountered using
hardware and software needed to carry out our project.
Personality
Clashes– generated from people’s perceptions or
emotions toward one another.
Leadership – Conflict may arise between a project manager and team member due
to managerial styles.
Personal
Conflict
When working within a group you have to
expect problems will arise as different work members have different ethics and
ways of doing things than you do. You have to expect that your workmates will
have different wants and needs and styles. When a conflict arises within a team
setting, it is possible that it may involve more than one member and have more
than two sides.
Within our group we have had some minor clashes with work ethic and styles.
Within our group we have had some minor clashes with work ethic and styles.
When resolving our issues we, as a group sat
down and communicated each members concerns and motives. This has enables us to
address the problems at hand as well as bringing it to the attention of the
members involved, allowing for them to have their say and to resolve the
issues.
Technical
conflict
Within our group we have had conflict with
a program not working how it should or giving the desired results. This is
normal when working with new software but not ideal as we don’t have excessive
amounts of time to spend fixing problems.
All members of our group experienced
frustrating problems with the 3D program 123D Catch which allows you to
construct a 3D model from photographs. We experienced numerous errors
throughout the upload and render process usually after considerable amounts of
time, escalating our frustration. We also had other problems with program
congestion due to too many photos and size which was only discovered by trial
and error as well as model errors due to photos not matching up correctly.
This became really frustrating and almost nightmarish
when trying to complete a simple model, waiting a few hours and then receiving
an error.
We managed to partially resolve the issue only by trying different computers as some would work better than others due to capabilities. We have a sound model at the moment but have decided, as a group, to leave this part of the task for the end where we can focus the rest of the time to it.
We managed to partially resolve the issue only by trying different computers as some would work better than others due to capabilities. We have a sound model at the moment but have decided, as a group, to leave this part of the task for the end where we can focus the rest of the time to it.
Management
There are 6 main ways of dealing with
conflict.
Be Open Minded:Being open minded involves trying to understand other people’s
views, values, beliefs, preferences and differences. This is not about learning
to agree with the person or learning to have the same values. It’s about trying
to understand why they think like that or what circumstances have led them to
do things like this. Or even respecting someone else’s decision (even though
you don’t agree) to speak out or try something new for eg. When the parties can learn to do this, a
common ground and understanding can be reached and the path to a resolution can
be made.
Focus on the Issue:There is no point focusing on other issues or instances that do not
relate to this particular conflict, as this will only aggravate, get people off
side and make them feel attacked. By doing this, you are getting further and
further away from developing a common ground with the people involved as well
as having an even more negative impact on the involved. This is not the way to
resolve conflict. For a resolution to occur, the issue that has brought upon
the conflict is to be the focus. This allows for both members to speak their
opinions and have an even playing field, rather than one party bombarding the
other with numerous negative instances where they have done wrong.
Do Not Focus on
Personalities: When personalities are brought into
conflicts it usually involves emotions and people’s perceptions of one another.
For example a team leader lectures a team member for being late. There view of
this person is that they are lazy and disrespectful. The team member thinks
that the leader is only focusing on them because they dislike them or that they
aren’t one of the favoured ones. These types of perceptions and views of people
need to be removed from the workplace. They only create problems with members
and offset the team from reaching their goals effectively.
Allow for Differences:Everyone has their own styles, preferences and ways of doing things.
Leaders can lead their teams any way they see best and this may frustrate or
aggravate some project members. For example one leader may be more open and
general whilst the other may be more direct, or even they may get you to do
something a certain way which doesn’t make sense to you. To avoid conflicts
with managers and project leaders, there needs to be a solid work plan
detailing principals and values as so consistency is formed and team members
aren’t confused and frustrated by erratic decisions.
Resolution Must be with
Conflicting Parties:For conflict to be resolved,
the conflicted parties must work out the issue at hand, come to an arrangement
on which the parties agree on and then move forward as a team. Issues cannot be
resolved properly if it isn’t involving the conflicted parties directly. These
are personal differences and must be dealt with in person otherwise the issues
may not be fully resolved and further conflict may come. If these issues cannot
be resolved between the members, then the project manager must be involved. The
project manager would have final say on the decision or outcome. In these cases
the outcome may not be in their favour as the decision is left to someone else.
Push
for Alternatives:When there is conflict within a
group, there is a driving force to find an alternative, wether that alternative
be a resolution or not, both parties cannot stay in a constant phase of
conflict. In the case of a conflict, where both members have reached a
disagreement, there are two ways in which they can turn out. The best and most
effective way is a resolution. A resolution will allow both parties to
reconcile, address the problem and move forward for the better of the team and
for themselves. The alternative is that a conflict will force for a change of
action, not always being beneficial for both parties, one may lose out from
either their opinion or maybe the group they were in. This is a consequence of
not working out a resolution.
Resolution
Influence
Factors
There are many different circumstances that
can influence or force a person to come to a resolution with the conflicting
party.
Importance: Is it a must that you have things your way? Is the friendship one
that you want to keep or remain on good terms? These are factors one must
consider before starting or resolving conflict.By analysing the importance of
an altercation by the outcome or relationship, one can assess wether conflict
or a resolution is needed.
Time
Constraints: Time can really influence ones
decision making when it comes to resolving conflict. Time shortages can expose
the importance of certain decisions or situations and then dictate the outcome.
Short
Term or Long Term: Consider whether a resolution is
needed for the short term or long term. If there is no need for a long term
resolution then maybe it isn’t worth working one out.
Benefits
Increased Understanding:
-Team member’s
awareness of the situation
-Each member’s
insight to achieve individual goal
Increased Group Organization:
-Stronger mutual
respect
-Renewed faith to
work together as a group
-Reunion teamwork
cooperation
Improved Self-Knowledge:
-Team member
examine their goals in close detail
-Team member
aware of things that are most important to their roles
-Sharpening team
member’s focus
-Enhancing team
member’s effectiveness
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